1. First step - Get groomed. You want the women you "bump into" to see the best version of you. You do not need to have a hot body to attract women, or be good looking, but you must clean yourself up for appearance. A woman wants to see the best version of you. General spots to review: Hair, skin, breath, and your fingernails.
2. A woman looks at the number one indicator about you and about how you will treat her, and this indicator better be right on. It's your shoes! Make sure your shoes are clean and well-kept. Do not go out flirting with women in your trainers (unless you just happen to be at the gym, but even then your sneakers should be in good shape.)
3. Flirting is always acceptable in a humorous tone. If you get too serious, a woman is going to turn off and tune you out. She wants to feel like this is something fun and playful, like those days on the playground.
4. The term "flirting" is really just girl-speak for "pick-up." Guys talk about "picking up" on girls, and women talk about "flirting" with guys. The terminology doesn't matter. What does matter is that you understand that women love to flirt, but hate the thought of being picked up on - which connotes fun and playfulness.
5. We are all born natural flirts. Just watch kids when they're playing. Watch their body language and their facial expressions. Watch how they roll their eyes, and how they use the tone of their voice to get their way with adults, as well as other kids. They are experts! You were once too, and all you need to do is tap back into it.
6. Flirting with women is something that guys often feel uncomfortable doing. A lot of guys are afraid they'll get arrested if they were seen flirting with women in a store or other establishment during the day. This is completely false, and you should act as if everyone around you wants you to be successful with this woman.
7. Flirt to give, not to get. "Outcome thinking" (focusing on what you can get from a woman) sabotages your results. When you create a situation where you have to get a result from something you do, you no longer feel fun. All conversations where someone wants something from the other person inevitably become uncomfortable. So give her the gift of a laugh, and you're pretty much guaranteed some attention.
8. Flirt for your own fun. If it's not fun, you won't keep doing it. Self-reinforcing habit. You must have a positive motivational reason to flirt, or you'll feel like it's just another chore and you'll stop doing it. Plus, this communicates your lack of neediness, which is another big turn-off for women. Flirt with her because you enjoy it, and you will ultimately have the most impact on a woman.
9. Flirt with every woman, child, and small furry mammal you encounter. Flirting is an attitude that comes through in your vibe. If you only approach attractive women, you'll just create a mental barrier for yourself, and more anxiety when you find a woman you really want to meet. Flirting is about creating an abundance mindset. The more abundant you feel, the less you appear needy to a woman.
10. Here's the first step to flirting: Ask an indirect question - Ask her something about wherever you are, and keep it relevant. In other words, if you're in a coffee shop, you need to ask a question that relates to fact that you're both in this coffee shop.
11. The second step to flirting: Use a sassy comment - Sometimes called being cocky&funny, or teasing. A good method is the "Duh" question: "Do you think they serve the drinks really hot here?" Then she usually answers with, "Um, yeah..." And after she'll look at you like you're from another planet, you smile, wink at her, and say, "You didn't really think I was serious, did you?" And the teasing has begun... and now you have a playful conversation.
12. The final step to flirting with a woman: YOU leave the conversation first. When you're the one to control the ending of the conversation, your confidence will go up ten times more than if she tells you, "I've got to get going." So don't let her get the drop on you.
13. Create a "Sacrificial 20": Leave with nothing for the first 20 women you flirt with. No phone number, no nothing. After you leave behind your old scarcity mindset, and when you feel like women are abundant, then you can start to go further...
When flirting be calm, just let it happen naturally and take note of how she reacts.
Don't flirt with a women who is already in a relationships, as this can cause problems
If she already likes your friend, wait until their relationship is over.
If a woman makes it clear she doesn't want to talk to you, just leave her alone
Be careful about what you say
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